If you're an unbeliever in a "relationship" with another unbeliever, and you're constantly thinking about unlocking her or his phone to check if they've been "talking" to and "seeing" someone else in the same broad way they did to you in the beginning, why are you still looking for an evidence, a reason to break up? I mean, your own shallow ordinary conversation with them is an evidence that there's no Present and no Future for you. So, don't be "afraid", you're already alone; just look for the Reason so you can be a mature person compatible with another mature person.
